Saturday, December 31, 2016

Remembering Just a Few of the Many Lives Lost in 2016

Several famous people returned home to Heaven in 2016.  Their presence on Earth mattered.  Here’s just a smidge of how some of them mattered to me.

Harper Lee: The first author who wrote a book I was forced to read in AP English class that I actually enjoyed!  I read the book in one sitting.  Through the guise of fiction, she dropped some serious wisdom.

Gene Wilder: I adored him and Gilda.  They seemed such a sweet loving couple and their love for each other made me happy.  So many wonderful movies that made me smile.  I still quote the line, “Fuzzy Wuzzy was a woman?!”  LOL!  And, he gave me a Golden Ticket to change the world, ‘cause “there’s nothing to it.”

Alan Rickman:  He was so good at being a bad guy on Die Hard that I really didn’t like him for a long while.  Though, he was the perfect Marvin in Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy.  But when he brought Snape to life, all was forgiven.  He melted my heart when I read his statement, “When I’m 80 years old and sitting in my rocking chair, I’ll be reading Harry Potter.  And my family will say to me, ‘After all this time?’ And I will say, ‘Always.’”  So sweet! 

Florence Henderson: I loved The Brady Bunch and all the show’s incarnations.  I very much missed seeing her when the Brady’s stopped televising their lives.  I was happy to watch her again on Dancing with the Stars and that cooking competition show she was on.  I liked her; she seemed pretty cool.

Gary Marshall: He brought to life so many of my favorite shows and movies to life.  Love, American Style.  The Odd Couple.  Angie.  Happy Days.  Mork & Mindy.  Laverne & Shirley.  Joanie Loves ChaChi.  Beaches.  Pretty Woman.  The Princess Diaries.  All of these shows and movies are part of my memories and my development.

Alan Thicke: He taught me that “you take the good, you take the bad, you take ‘em both and there you have the Facts of Life.” He also preached that the world “don't move to the beat of just one drum; what might be right for you, may not be right for some.”  Exactly!

John Glenn: Pretty sure he’s the astronaut I met at a Star Trek Convention one year.  He had a table in the Vendor room and he was signing autographs for free…and no one was lined up at his table.  I could not believe that at a Sci-Fi convention, people were not geeking out over a guy who’d actually been in space!  I was shocked!  He looked lonely.  I’m not up on my astronaut knowledge and I couldn’t begin to name the actual mission(s) he was on, but I knew his name and that he was a pretty big deal.  I walked over to his table and got his autograph.  It was a bit awkward; I felt bad that I didn’t know every bit about him and therefore not confident enough to start up a conversation, but I’d have felt worse leaving him hangin’.

Carrie Fisher:  She had a rough go of life for awhile there, but she pulled through and figured out how to live her life.  I like her sense of humor.  I know she did other things, but she’ll always be Princess Badass to me.

Debbie Reynolds:  I love her in the Halloweentown movies.  What I love best though is the fact that she collected and preserved movie memorabilia.  A geek after my own heart.

Kenny Baker: I very much appreciate that he brought R2D2 to life.  R2 was awesome!

Tom Peterson: A guy from Portland, Oregon whose commercials woke everyone up late at night and whose haircut was all the buzz.  Just a salesman whose business ended up going under after several years, but he was good at getting people to know his name.  His face is all over my childhood as a Portland icon.  And I still remember the song someone did, “I woke up with a Tom Peterson haircut.”

Agnes Nixon:  She told me all about her children for years and I loved it.  My favorite lives to peek in on were those on One Life to Live.  I still miss that show.  Every once in a while, I wonder what Vicki and Dorian are up to.

Joseph Mascolo: I watched Days of Our Lives with my friend and her mom for about 1 year.  In that year, Stefano DiMera said one of the silliest yet memorable things in a fit of rage and annoyance, “DESTROY THE PHONE!”  That phrase unlocks cherished memories of time spent with my friend and her family.

Nancy Reagan:  I still remember her Just Say No campaign.  And it’s still good advice for any area of life, not just drugs.  If someone is telling you to do something you don’t want to do, just say no.  If someone is telling you to be something you are not, just say no.

Doris Roberts:  I was enchanted by her Mrs. Miracle performances.  From the sass of Marie Baron to the delightful and enchanting Mrs. Miracle; Doris had range.  I saw an interview she did where she explained she had a motto, “I don’t give in.  I don’t give up. I don’t settle.  And I never take no for an answer.”  I admire that.  Know yourself enough to know what you want in life and don’t settle for less than you desire.

George Michael: He taught me to have faith and give my heart to someone special.  I would’ve said he forgot to wake us up before he left, but then I read his obit, and given his work enlightening people as a gay rights activist, I’d say he did.

Zsa Zsa Gabor: Dahling.  I enjoyed seeing her on tv shows back in the day.  She seemed to ooze confidence and charm.  I smiled whenever she guest starred on something or was just on a talk show.

Muhammad Ali:  I’m not really a fan of boxing, but I admired his dedication to his sport.  And his, “Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee” mantra is helpful on occasion.  Like another way of saying Roosevelt’s quote, “Talk softly, and carry a big stick.” Or is it, "Walk softly, and carry a big stick"?

Michu Meszaros:  I very much appreciate that he brought Gordon Shumway into my life.

Ray Tomlinson:  I honestly had no idea who this guy was until I read a list of people who’d passed away in 2016.  According to the list I read, he was the creator of email.  Wow!  That’s cool!  He impacted my life profoundly and I had no idea who he was until just now. 

Makiko Futaki: I didn’t much like anime until I saw Makiko’s work.  Mesmerizing.  I still don’t quite know what Howel’s Moving Castle is about, but I love it!  And Totoro?  What the heck is Totoro?  Not sure, but I love him!  Don’t ruin the magic by giving me an answer.

Glen Frey:  He sang The Heat is On – a song I played in Pep Band, over and over and over.  The man also brought Hotel California into my life.  Crank it up!!!  He checked out, but he’ll never truly leave.

David Bowie:  There are actually few songs of his that I like.  (I hear fans gasping in horror.)  I loved his acting.  Labyrinth.  I mean, come on…Labyrinth!  Am I right?!  Yes, I am.  Aside from that, I admired his strength of character; he was who he was, no pretending, no apologizing.  He seemed like a pretty cool guy.

Prince:  I first saw Prince on American Bandstand singing Little Red Corvette.  I fell in love with his music right then.  The man had talent.  A bright light and creative musician.  Though I didn’t really care for his acting, that didn’t turn me away from really really liking his music.  I think I like his Diamonds & Pearls CD best.  

Well, I’m going to put on my raspberry beret and go have some “starfish and coffee, maple syrup and jam” to ring in the new year.  

"If you set your mind free baby, maybe you'll understand."

May your 2017 be a good one!